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Considerations for a Short-Marriage Divorce

Sometimes marriage doesn’t work out. And sometimes, you realize that fairly quickly. If you’ve only been married for a short amount of time and are now considering divorce, there are some factors you’ll want to consider.

Short-Term Marriage: Not Uncommon

Short-term marriages are not unusual. Some couples think that a marriage will help to heal a relationship. Factors such as not living together, or jealous thoughts can often feel “solvable” with a marriage. And that’s not often the case. According to the US Census Bureau, 11.5% of marriages that happened during 1995 to 1999 never lasted till the fifth anniversary. 

Divorce Considerations

Even after a short marriage it can be difficult to decide to divorce. Divorce hurts. While you might not have as many things that need to be ironed out, such as property division or child custody, they are all things to be considered and presented to a divorce attorney should you decide to work with one. You’ll want to provide the following information to your attorney: details of your marriage date, your income, your soon to be ex-spouse’s income, and employment status. You’ll also need to provide a lawyer with any property you owned prior to the marriage, and property acquired during the marriage (if any was acquired). You’ll also need to provide any information regarding children (if you have them or are pregnant at the time of the divorce). 

Working with a Divorce Lawyer

Seeking the advice of a divorce lawyer can be helpful. Just because your marriage is ending that doesn’t mean you should feel like you’ve failed. A divorce lawyer will be able to walk you through the divorce process, while also providing advice on how to get through this difficult time. 

For advice on divorce, you need the expert law firm of Divorce Law LA. Schedule a consultation today.

Source: Rosen Law Firm – North Carolina Divorce, The Short Marriage: Divorcing after a Year (or Two), 2015

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Ryan Adams and Mandy Moore Decide to Divorce

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The self titled album that Ryan Adams released in 2014 had a more gloomy and downcast tone than previous releases. That tone was initially attributed to to singer’s battle with Ménière’s disease (an inner ear disorder that affects balance and hearing) and the death of his grandmother. But perhaps there’s another reason for the singer’s melancholy: his divorce from singer Mandy Moore.

Divorce

After 6 years of marriage the rocker and pop star are splitting up. In a joint statement released by the couple it was announce that “Mandy Moore and Ryan Adams have mutually decided to end their marriage of almost six years. It is a respectful, amicable parting of ways and both Mandy and Ryan are asking for media to respect their privacy at this time.”

Marriage

Just four weeks after announcing they were engaged, the singers were married in March 2009 in Savannah, Georgia. The two have collaborated on multiple songs through the years. Adams worked with Moore on her next studio album. Moore also sang back-up vocals on Adams’ 2011 album Ashes & Fire and Ryan Adams‘ “Trouble” and “Am I Safe.”

Private

The two are notorious for keeping their relationship and marriage out of the headlines. Last year, Adams commented, “I’m a private person and I’ll be a gentleman and say I’m not talking about my marriage ever. I’ll never talk about it. Ever.” Adams is set to tour with Jenny Lewis this spring.

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Source: Rolling Stone, Ryan Adams and Mandy Moore ‘Mutually Decided to End Their Marriage,’ January 24, 2015

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When Financial Problems Pave the Way for Divorce

Research has indicated that financial woes can be a main predictor of divorce. That being said, it might be hard to as a potential mate just what his or her credit score is, or what their last year’s tax return looks like. But, as we’ll see, those kind of discussions can lead to healthier relationships, and marriages.

Different Financial Habits

Many couples in the U.S. don’t see eye to eye when it comes to managing their finances. “Having different money personalities in a couple is not unusual,” says financial advisor Andy Tilp says. “The differences can manifest themselves in many ways—saver vs. spender, controller vs. passive, or interested and even passionate about the subject vs. honestly having no interest.” Unfortunately, these types of differences can lead to serious conflict.

Money Disagreements Lead to Divorce

A 2013 Kansas State University study determined that disagreements regarding money can be a predictor of divorce. Conflicts over money lasted longer, involved harsher language, and also required longer periods of time for recovery than arguments regarding other topics.The study also took a look at how arguments and divorce were impacted by income, debt, and net worth. It concluded that regardless of how much money a couple has, conflicts about that money can still result in divorce.

What to Do

So what should a couple, fraught with debates about money and how to spend it, do? According to experts, communication is key. Not talking about finances can mean disaster, so try to make sure that both sides are being heard. Once both sides have shared their feelings, it’s important to find a common ground. If this cannot be done within the couple, then outside help might be warranted. Money problems are rarely easy, but once both sides are voiced, and a shared vision has been created, a couple can move forward and potentially avoid divorce.

 

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Source: USA Today, NerdWallet: When couples disagree on money, October 26, 2014

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Your Brain During Divorce

Divorce is an emotional time. It can lead to anger, jealousy, guilt, and lots of tears. And just about anything can set it off. But how do you manage it?

Your Brain on Divorce

There’s significant scientific research to show that the emotions you are going through during your divorce are unavoidable. The mind processes threats – either physical or emotional – in the exact same way – via the fight or flight mechanism. So when you are in the middle of that type of stress it makes sense that you’re going to feel a little bit (or a lot a bit) addled and muddled. Your emotions kick in and run wild.

Controlling Your Brain

The amygdala handles your emotions. So during these times of extreme stress it might be best to try and engage your prefrontal cortex – the part of the brain that is rational and processes your ability to reason. Finding a way to “think through” the stress is a powerful tool you’ll need and want to develop. But how?

1. Know the Signs – knowing the telltale signs of when you’re getting stressed out will help you be able to manage the feelings. Is your temperature rising? Pulse racing? Seeing red? Are friends close to you saying it might be time to calm down?

2. Take a Walk – a quick walk or jog can help get out some of that intense energy you’re feeling. A trip to the gym can help you get out the aggression you might be feeling. If anything, try to take some deep breaths while finding that quieter spot in your brain.

3. Relax – if you can’t get out and walk around, try to relax. Focusing on gratefulness or positive memories can help you regain your sane mind.

Working with a Divorce Attorney

Working with a divorce lawyer can help to ease tensions surrounding the divorce process. A divorce lawyer will be able to talk you through the process, as well as provide helpful suggestions on how to build your case and reach an agreement.

 

For advice on divorce, you need the expert law firm of Divorce Law LA. Schedule a consultation today.

Source: The Huffington Post, Your Brain On Divorce, March 4, 2013

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Cannon Filed for Divorce Dec. 12

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It looks like Nick Cannon and Mariah Carey have officially divorced. The two have been on rocky terms since last year.

Cannon Files for Divorce

Allegedly, the 34-year-old “America’s Got Talent” host filed for divorce on December 12. Cannon spoke openly about the two’s separation last year. Telling The Insider last August that the two had been, “living in separate houses for a few months.” He continued, “(Right now) my main focus is my kids.” Cannon has not been tight-lipped about the two’s separation, often taking to Twitter to express his kind feelings towards his ex-spouse.

Carey in the Spotlight

Carey, 44, was back in the headlines just a week prior to Cannon’s alleged filing after having shown up late to the taping of the Rockerfeller Center Christmas Tree Lighting.

“Last night’s situation was beyond my control. I apologize to all that showed up, you know that I would never want to disappoint you,” Carey tweeted to her 15 million followers. “You’ve kept me here, in your hearts, and I keep you in mine always. We are #lambily! #ThereForMe. I will be opening tonight’s live show in Rockefeller center with “All I Want For Christmas Is You”!!!!” The singer received criticism for not being able to hit some of her famous high notes while performing the song.

Just recently the singer revealed she will be heading to Las Vegas for a residency at Caesars Palace.

Marriage and Divorce

The two were wed in the Bahamas in April 2008. They share 3-year-old twins, Moroccan and Monroe. The terms of the divorce are not yet known, so it’s unknown if child custody has already been determined.

 

For advice on divorce, you need the expert law firm of Divorce Law LA. Schedule a consultation today.

Source: Daily News, Nick Cannon files for divorce from Mariah Carey: report, January 16, 2014

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A Cheap Wedding Might Save Your Marriage

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A recent study done by two economics professors at Emory University, found a correlation between couples who went cheap on their wedding and the length of marriage. Turns out, cutting down on the big day splurges might actually indicate your marriage will last longer.

The professors also found similar link between less-expensive engagement rings and lower divorce rates.

The Study

The surveys were completed by 3,151 adults in the United States who are married, or have been married. The authors believe this is the first time the correlation between wedding expenses and the length of marriages has been examined.

The research also shows that women that spent more than $20,000 on their weddings were divorced at a rate roughly 1.6 times higher than women who spent between $5,000 and $10,000 on the big day. It also showed that couples who spent $1,000 or less on their nuptial ceremony had a lower than average rate of divorce.

Theories

Though the authors of the study, Professor Hugo M. Mialon and Andrew M. Francis, didn’t examine why this might be, they do have a few theories.

“It could be that the type of couples who have a … (cheap wedding) are the type that are a perfect match for each other,” said Mialon. “Or it could be that having an inexpensive wedding relieves young couples of financial burdens that may strain their marriage.”

Average Wedding Cost

According to a survey of 13,000 brides and grooms done performed by the wedding website, TheKnot.com, couples in the U.S. spent an average of $29,858 for their 2013 weddings.

“The wedding industry has long associated lavish weddings with longer-lasting marriages. Industry advertising has fueled norms that create the impression that spending large amounts on the wedding is a signal of commitment or is necessary for a marriage to be successful,” said Francis. “Overall, our findings provide little evidence to support the validity of the wedding industry’s general message that connects expensive weddings with positive marital outcomes,” he said.

The More the Merrier?

But maybe it’s not just cheaper = happier. It could also be that more people actually equals merrier. The study additionally found that the more people that attend the wedding, the lower the divorce rate.

“This could be evidence of a community effect, i.e., having more support from friends and family may help the couple to get through the challenges of marriage,” Francis said. “Or this could be that the type of couples who have a lot of friends and family are also the type that tend not to divorce as much.”

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Source: CNN.com, Want a happy marriage? Have a big, cheap wedding, October 13, 2014

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Why You Might Consider Other “Divorce” Options

The fact that divorce is common in the U.S. is not a startling one. It’s almost common knowledge that one out of two first marriages end in divorce. And for second marriages, the rate is two out of three. When it comes to third marriages, nearly three out of four end in divorce. With how common divorce has become, it makes sense that more harmonious options have been put on the table – namely the process of a collaborative divorce. This approach focuses on finding a positive end result that satisfies both parties.

Collaboration and Collaborative Divorce

The process of collaboration is used to settle many different disputes that range from street gangs, competing businesses, and even disputes that happen between nations. Suzy Eckstein, a family law attorney and practitioner of collaborative divorce, believes clients and divorcing clients should be made aware of the option they have between choosing a standard divorce and a collaborative divorce. “Very often, a divorcing client comes to an advisor and asks for help and guidance around this overwhelming process,” she said. “It’s really important that they have an understanding of and information about their choices in the divorce process. And [collaborative divorce] has the potential to create more durable agreements that serve everyone and avoid repeated litigation.”

Multiple Experts Used in Collaborative Divorce Process

The collaborative divorce process “provides you and your spouse or partner with the support and guidance of your own lawyers without going to court.” During this process a couple will seek the expertise of multiple experts – financial, mental health, and child specialists. All these experts will work with the spouses’ respective attorneys to resolve differences and disputes.

Building Your Collaborative Divorce Team

Working with a trusted attorney to help compile a whole collaborative divorce team will be crucial to getting through the process. A lawyers skilled in collaborative law will be able to make suggestions and guide you through the process. This form of dissolving your marriage can be a less stressful and sometimes less expensive option. Because of this, it’s definitely an option you should consider.

For advice on divorce or collaborative divorce, you need the expert law firm of Divorce Law LA. Schedule a consultation today.

Source: ThinkAdvisor, Collaborative Divorce: A Win-Win Dissolution, August 25, 2014

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Marital Tort

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Events that lead to divorce can be terrible – cheating, lying, etc…but what happens when those reasons enter into the legal territory of marital torts? And what are marital torts?

Marital Tort

Marital torts are essentially “marital wrongs” inflicted by one spouse on the other. Examples of marital torts include: infecting a spouse with a sexually transmitted disease, physical assault and battery, intentional infliction of emotional distress, marital rape, invasion of privacy, and wiretapping. When one of these grounds is believed to exist in the relationship, the victimized spouse is able to file a marital tort claim. In some cases, such as sexual violence and domestic assault and battery, criminal charges can be pressed at the same time.

Compensation for Wrongs Done

The courts explain that marital tort exists to “redress the violation of important norms, compensate victims and discourage unsafe behavior.” What this translates to is, if a tort is proven, then the spouse at fault will need to pay for the wrongs done.

Being about to sue your spouse is a relatively new phenomenon in the United States. Previously, spouses were not able to do so because of a concept known as inter-spousal immunity. Essentially, this took the view that wives were “property” of their husbands. This concept was deemed outdated in 1961 by the New Jersey courts.

Filing a Marital Tort Claim

You’ll want to consult an attorney if you think you have grounds for filing a marital tort claim. An attorney will be able to dress your specific state’s marital tort laws. Filing a tort claim can be a powerful tool to ensure justice is done.

Source: The Huffington Post, Beyond Divorce: The Surprising Reasons Why Some Spouses Sue Each Other, January 6, 2015

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Gary Oldman Divorce

Actor Gary Oldman is heading for his fourth divorce. Making him a veteran of the screen, but also a veteran in the dissolution of marriages.

Divorce Petition

Oldman’s wife of six years, Alexandra Edenborough, 36, filed a divorce petition in Los Angeles County Superior Court. citing irreconcilable differences.

Edenborough is a jazz and electronica singer. The two were married New Year’s Eve of 2008.

Separated for a Year

Though the date of separation was listed as “TBD” on the file paperwork, according to Oldman’s spokesman Douglas Urbanski the two separated more than a year ago. They “have agreed to an amicable divorce” and “remain on warm, friendly terms,” he said. He also added that Oldman, 56, had yet to file a response to Edenborough’s petition.

“Alex and I had several great years together, and we shared a great love during that time; but there is big difference in our ages and ultimately that gap inevitably revealed different lifestyle interests,” the actor said. “While I have been sad about this for over a year, I am grateful for the good times we did have, and we remain friends. Of course I wish Alex the best happiness in the future.”

Marital Property Division

According to court documents, separate property and community property has not been worked out yet. The petition will be amended once the assets had been “ascertained.” She is seeking payment from Oldman for attorney fees and spousal support.

Oldman has been married three times previously: to English actress Leslie Manville, they share one child; Uma Thurman; and Donya Fiorentino, they share two sons.

 

Source: Los Angeles Times, Gary Oldman’s fourth wife files for divorce after yearlong separation, January 12, 2014

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